I'm Young, I PLWHA (based on a true story)

This is a true story, the reader can not find in any world,
This story tells about a real experience that the reader may already have heard or been a lot going on in the reader. and all the names and places that tell disguised in order to maintain the privacy and comfort.

This story began when the boy lived with all five siblings in a house plywood fit enough to live seven members of the family, father, mother, two sisters and two older sisters women do. the boy who is only a man feels himself a footstool when his father returned to the city to earn a living for her family. the boy who was going to class 2 STM land in the city where he lived very kebngungan remember learning needs to eat more and more while he always succumb to both the sister and brother to be able to learn. yes, the boy's sister was in school at that time, the first Rere are still in school at SMP Muhammadiyah 1 and Ayu are still in elementary school. Ayi and Eci while his brother worked in the management but at a different store, the first brother is ayi working in Muslim shops and ECI working in the gift shop. due to limitations of the increasingly urgent economists make the boy who likes to fantasize and wished to act bad in the eyes of society. every night he crept to the sound bianatang night, even the occasional rainfall cute face flushed. hasty step and breath made increasingly erratic heart beats. he was just doing routine work he had done for 2 weeks with the same feeling. only takes approximately two hours to complete the illicit activity that he did, that is taking "jimpitan rounds" of each house in the hamlet, sometimes the boy to operate until the other two neighboring hamlets, just for the sake of the stomach! and then the boy's eyes fixed on the house shooting and photography services provider, began roaring devil whisper result footsteps pitcher who are tempted to take a camcorder that is lying on the table was running smoothly. still with a troubled heart. The remaining morning can not be spent for the boy rest.

The second day the heart of the pitcher is still uneasy because he had to hide the stolen goods in tasnnya that he brought to school. because he thought was not safe to store valuables in the house. up in the morning when he operates, local residents know the boy suspicious actions in one of the houses. he caught into the homes. difficult days pitcher faced with feelings of guilt and disappointed parents could not avoid. until he had to deal with the police, crime reporter to the prosecutor and the judge in court. the boy who still go to school have entered the case of daily newspapers on the following day when the completed trial in court. fortunately, the judges decision is made to test the attitude of the pitcher. which means that if the pitcher attitude has not changed, the boy would sleep with other troubled children and it will be labeled as a bad boy!

the boy is now seventeen years old, meaning that the status of adolescent will soon disappear, but the boy remained a quiet child. He attended a private school before he left the country because the school decided to get out because the case and he often get bullyan of friends boyfriend. The school now he is reputed to be a pretty smart kid because his friends the average age sister Rere.

but still a great sense of curiosity that led to the boy could not stay silent. he started to try something new to the stomach. he became acquainted with the world in which sexual disorientation arouse more money. yes, he tried to establish a relationship with one of the gay and made an appointment. men who had just invited to meet named Dion, he invited the streets to one of the city's attractions pitcher. after satisfaction of seeing beautiful scenery and try to enjoy together with Dion, pitcher invited to enjoy the other things you've never felt before pitcher. diajaklah Buyung to Inns near the market. and it happened where the pitcher eventually try with some other men after the teganya Dion cut ties with Buyung, Dion with Buyung relationship only lasted two months. Dion and betrayal he regarded as the event that he considered such a relationship does not end well. and the boy decided to take revenge by offering himself to facebook, especially in special group of gay men seek sexual targets for paying their satisfaction with their sexual objects. Buyunglah one of them, the boy began to feel how to be a gigolo, though his body is not as smooth and as good as he had seen on the internet, but with a look cute and "virgin" the boy into his capital he thought were pretty good. until he had to get customers who want to be a partner because sorry to see the condition of the young pitcher into sexual vendors. time passed and the boy had to be where he should take his place UjianNasional gain knowledge, and over time the odd jobs that he went through already useless and he felt guilty at her. he decided to "fast" and refrain from the temptation that could make a relapse. and in fact was not entirely successful. if new 89% say the boy can survive. because the first factor is that he is not possible to change the number to a cell phone because it has three times the pitcher menggant cell phone number. and the number that are still owned by the customer and the ex. second, he walkin can say no when he opened the facebook account, and the third is the boy could memanagemen less sexual desires with good, so when it accesses the Internet at the cafe or HP, he always opens a porn site, although in the form of writing (short stories / novels dewassa).

Exam after the boy who is active in youth forums are open issues regarding adolescent reproductive health more diligent to test VCT or Voluntary Counseling Test namely voluntary counseling and testing for HIV status. the VCT to four, the boy get a positive result for a year .. Buyung fasting to not have sex too severe shock and did not receive the status. whereas during emnjajakan diripun he always wear a condom and was limited to oral. there are times when the boy did not use the 'safety' that when he came into contact with people who claim to want to make the pitcher partner. determines the boy who had the disease did not want to drag on in the fall. but the boy remains in the establishment to remain faithful to their partner who has one year to accompany him and accepted it wholeheartedly. partner even "run away" from Bernie adoptive parents being caught is a gay sexual orientation. the boy and his partner always support each other even in the course of his love walkin smooth as imaginable. there is a time when misunderstandings and miscommunication. the boy still maintaining cintanyya. he told his partner untu remain routine testing VCT / HIV. and recently a partner to test VCT at nearby hospitals and note that the results were negative. for while it safe thought pitcher and his partner. long story pitcher into a whip for him and hope that people around him who have the same sexual orientation with savety dem to keep their own future and the others of course. oh yes, the boy also had dared to open the HIV status to his family, and it is a shocking news for parents especially. but the boy being mediocre, even act like nothing happen to him. pitcher currently still a student at a state university in Yogyakarta and work as an employee, daily activities joggingnya also not be missed. he tried to control his health. regular exercise and eating a nutritious diet and regular rest will reduce the impact for himself that has become PLWHA (people living with HIV AIDS). And the boy also was ready when he would antiretroviral therapy (anti-retroviral).

(Pras-ed)

WHERE womb, MOTHER?!

"Brother, I'm pregnant."

"I'm not ready." Replied the man.

The woman bowed. Her heart was breaking. Destroyed his future. Like a painting on the sand made by him and his girlfriend in parangtritis when their love was passionate, but within seconds the waves to remove the painting.

"You just have to choose, me or your son." He says coldly.

"Mas mean?"

"Drop your womb."

"Content you? This is also your son mas! "

Atmospheric measuring 4x5 meter room was getting stuffy. Mimi is now the woman's name, should be troubled by the choices made man she loved, even though he knew Ray's ex-IDUs. But he had promised that he would change the first Ray to be a good boy, even Mimi willing to do anything for the sake of Ray, including giving up her purity. Arrives because he knew all this time Ray also loved him very much and will always be with him until he graduated from high school, and finally rocking.

"Well, I'm going to abort obstetrician."

"Good, I will accompany you to see into the Mak Ijah tomorrow." Smile happily without any apparent sense to protect Mimi and her son.

***

Mimi morning were in front of a mirror, look looks beautiful with her hair shoulder length. But his eyes were blank stare that he was a murderer, he was really sorry to have to say something that does not deserve a mother say. But rice has become porridge, he just needs mental readiness before Mak Ijah.

Mak Ijah is owned by the village midwife as a midwife or as aborter. For some womenfolk in the village, Mak Ijah presence is helpful, but in addition, the figure is a frightening specter for the girls who have unwanted pregnancies and victims of rape. Because of the way Mak Ijah illegal abortion practice was very much of the code of medical ethics, the fetus does indeed fall, but how truly awful and Mimi could tear the uterus, even destroyed it.

"You sure with your decision?" Parents who already smell the ground staring deep into the eyes of the eleventh grade girls,

"Si .. ready Mak,"

Nothing feels buliran Mimi tears fell slowly, in pain, humiliation, resisting sin which he has done on his own unborn child as young as two weeks.

Every shadow of laughter with her friends crossed without permission,

"Mi, if you, would pass straight marriage huh? hahahaha "joked Surti

"Ndak lah, I want to work once, bahagiain my parents, Grandma could disambi college sukur Sur."

By drops of blood falling from Mimi smooth thighs, lower lip bitten, squeezed his hands tightly bed sheets until his veins visible, sometimes groaning and roaring breath berpaduan produce sound sad, very excruciating.

"Mimi, bad! Parmi already married! "Exclaimed his friend Atun with panic.

"Huh? Are you really you tun? How can yo? "Said Mimi curious.

"He said he tek dah-containing first, the same thugs raped in an alley near the market when she was shopping. You know how it Mi, deserted alley right there and a bit dark. "

"Oh God, yes the Parmi nduk pity."

The recording will be nostalgic with friends and his friends always overshadow Mimi. He was still thinking why could happen like this in the history of his life.

He also thought, if the school can not remove all of a sudden when her parents reported she certainly did not remember the expression on the face his friend. Disgust mixed with pity. But Mimi could only hold shame. Added her gaping wounds with hujaman scorn from neighbors and ridicule from his brothers. Mimi parents also can only be silent, be silent because they are not able to do anything. All returned to their daughter,

"Mom, where Mimi first born?" Ask Mimi remembered when he was six years old.

"From here you know nduk palace." Replied the mother Mimi while showing her belly.

"What was his name in the palace bu?"

"His name is Mimi uterus, where you were born, kid."

Her tears fell again after the umpteenth time memories with his parents, especially his memories with his mother. But whatever it is their decision fully submit to the Mimi. And now Mimi choose candidates son decided survival Mimi and Ray. It's an amazingly powerful mental Mimi survived execute a given Mak Ijah.

A cassava tree trunk with a half meter long dark red with metallic smell in every corner of the room to make Mimi shudder, still with the pain he felt, Mak Ijah small bowl fetching dark green liquid which proffered to him.

"Drink this, nduk can reduce your pain."

Mimi extremely bitter taste that feeling to flow into the throat and ends at the stomach. Slowly just pain and fatigue she felt after downing two cups of herbal medicine Mak Ijah provide.

Outdoors Mak Ijah, Ray saw the look on his face grimaced Mimi sore.

"It hurts yes dear?" Tanya Ray frowned yan to feel pain experienced by her boyfriend.

"Yeah mas," the short answer is signaling its disappointment that Ray would do this all with him.

Mimi her arms around her waist, led her into public transportation.

***

For days, weeks, and months have passed Mimi to throw away the memories which can create a moody and silent in front of the mirror. He thinks now is the fate of the continuation of her life with Ray, Ray is still faithful to accompany post-abortion, Ray is now accepted to work in the furniture factory across the village, although only four months working for a living for Mimi even though they have not been officially recorded at KUA, but Ray was so responsible to fulfill his promise to Mimi.

Ray Early in the morning to go to work, because the distance across the village spent two hours with the motor, and then go home the middle of the night once. Mimi is always awake when Ray came home, she String together the warm water and coffee every Ray home. But night time is very different from usual nights. Mimi feeling really upset, confused mixed feeling worried Mimi without obvious cause.

Smart smart as squirrels jump, but in the end it can not always jump far and to the right, the squirrel kahirnya fall into the abyss. It turns playing Ray caught philandering with women across the country. It just happened, so fast, when Mimi kissed her perfume on his shirt. But he did not say anything. On the second day he found her lips shaped red cap at Ray handkerchief. His heart was restless just added, plus Ray no longer go home at night. She came home at dawn today!

And on that day when he found a small pelastik flavorful wine that turned out to wrap a condom! How crushed feelings. Absurdly sad, dizzy head could no longer hold back the tears roar that was flowing in the young woman's cheek. Of course Mimi feeling shattered, he immediately clarify evidence he found it as he had come home.

"Mas, mas please answer my question."

"Mi Come on, I'm tired. I want to rest now. This weeks work a lot. "He said, turning away in front of him.

Ray pressed and Mimi finally asked to be taken to her parents' house that day. Fortunately Ray does not do violence to Mimi that has occurred in some such similar household household Mimi and Ray. With fine Mimi Ray drive home.

How sore was on hearts, as long as this remains Mimi positi8v thinking to Ray, this time he still keeps in Ray does not repeat the mistakes of his past. But is this return? Family guesses that Mimi and Ray's relationship will not last long. And she did occur, Mimi return to the bosom of mother and father.

Ray cursed his father, while his mother nags just hug Mimi Mimi equally crying, not touched, but lament the fate sematanya girls. Mimi ran to her room and was still sobbing in the corner of the bed, hugging her daughter tightly stuffed screaming so loud. Mentally down. Now he can no longer think clearly. Randomized decrypted using the doll room.

"Astaghfirullah Mimi!" Cried her mother opened the door Mimi.

"Sir!! Father!!! Mimi sir! "Mimi approached the mother who lost control and central slumped on the floor with breath that is still struggling. Mimi as she hugged her husband shouted.

"Sir!! Mimi sir!! Nduk seek forgiveness. Seek forgiveness! "

Mothers do not realize that Mimi Mimi thigh red liquid flowing fresh.

***

"Not lelooo, lelooo lelooo ledung, sweet child, do not you cry. Do not cry anymore ya boy ya. Mother later bought a cake for you. hihihi. "

Mimi body is very thin, like a skeleton wrapped only by skin. As she rocked her favorite doll. Redundantly woman talking to inanimate objects that he interspersed chuckle and sometimes sobs turned into anger instantly. Mimi is now the first flawless beautiful middle-aged women who suffer from mental disorders.

One more white-haired woman approached Mimi, with the body slightly bent, but he forced his steps with a tray of lunch for Mimi,

"Nduk, eat first yes. Nda let you starve. This same mother coocked bandeng fish favorite kale stir. Here Come the mother tray "said the old woman.

Mimi body rebelled, threw trays Mimi mother brought up the contents scattered. Mimi sudden screeching and screaming, clutching his stomach.

"My uterus! Where mothers womb ...!! "

----------THE END--------

Peranan Media Sosial dalam Pendidikan

 

Jakarta-detik.com - Bersama dengan perkembangan zaman, maka proses belajar mengajar di sekolah dan bangku kuliah turut mengalami perubahan.

Dalam konteks TIK (Teknologi Informasi dan Komunikasi), penetrasi gadget yang begitu deras telah mengubah paradigma pendidikan menjadi technology-based. Namun, ke manakah sesungguhnya arah perubahan tersebut?

Perkembangan Manusia Bersama Gadget

Menurut Jean Piaget, bayi mulai mengembangkan sensor motorik mereka pada usia antara 0-2 tahun. Pada saat itu, bayi mulai belajar mengkordinasikan segenap organ tubuh, dalam rangka mengasosiasikannya dengan obyek eksternal.

Hanya saja, perkembangan TIK yang begitu deras telah menyebabkan bayi pada usia tersebut tidak hanya mengkordinasikan motorik mereka terhadap obyek seperti kursi atau bola mainan, namun juga terhadap gadget.

Di era sekarang ini, telah lahir generasi digital native, yang sudah sangat familiar terhadap TIK dari usia sangat dini. Walaupun tentunya masih dibatasi terhadap aplikasi pendidikan usia dini, namun sudah ada pada usia 1-2 tahun (toddlers) yang sudah sangat fasih dalam menggunakan gadget, terutama tablet.

Hal ini yang mengakibatkan bagaimana generasi digital mencerap informasi, dalam rangka proses belajar, sudah sangat berbeda dengan generasi pendahulu mereka.

Sebagai contoh, generasi digital sudah terbiasa mencari informasi pada Google dan Wikipedia untuk membantu menyelesaikan pekerjaan rumah mereka. Akan tetapi, ada satu tools yang berbeda dengan yang lain.

Tools ini dapat mendiseminasi informasi dalam jumlah sangat besar, bahkan membagikannya ke seluruh dunia dengan cepat. Tools ini adalah 'senjata pamungkas' bagi generasi digital untuk mendidik diri mereka sendiri. Ia adalah media sosial (medsos).

Medsos: Menurunkan atau Menambah Prestasi?

Secara psikologis, memang medsos seperti pisau bermata dua. Ia dapat meningkatkan dan menurunkan prestasi belajar, tergantung bagaimana pemakaiannya.

Bagi generasi digital, teori 'six degree of separation' yang melandasi perkembangan medsos, adalah jembatan mereka untuk mengumpulkan informasi sebanyak-banyaknya dan dari siapa saja.

Hanya pertanyaannya, dengan 'ledakan' informasi yang begitu rupa, bagaimana pengaruhnya ke proses belajar mereka?

Jika kita membaca berita atau beberapa literatur, memang medsos memiliki potensi untuk menurunkan prestasi belajar. 'Ledakan' informasi, ternyata justru dapat mengakibatkan meningkatnya apatisme generasi digital, terutama dalam konteks prestasi belajar.

Penggunaan medsos yang tanpa kendali, akan mengakibatkan pembelajar melupakan tugas utama mereka di sekolah atau bangku kuliah, dan memilih memasuki dunia virtual tanpa batas.

Satu hal yang seyogyanya kita pahami, cyberspace tidak jauh berbeda dengan hutan belantara. Kita bisa menemui bunga yang indah, atau buah yang enak, namun juga bisa diterkam binatang buas.

Bisa kita istilahkan, hiper-realitas akan lahir, dimana kesadaran dari pembelajar tersebut 'terhisap' dan menghilang dalam pusaran limbo cyberspace, yang dimotori oleh Medsos.

Hiper-realitas akan mengakhiri konsep diri siswa akan berprestasi baik, sebab perbedaan dunia nyata dan maya akan kabur secara total.

Jika membayangkan medsos, baik itu Twitter, Facebook, Google+, dan lainnya sebagai limbo cyberspace, memang hal tersebut dapat menjadikan kita skeptis terhadap perkembangan TIK.

Namun, satu hal yang seyogyanya kita pegang, adalah premis 'teknologi tidak pernah bebas nilai'. Apakah maksudnya? Di sini pendidikan memegang peran penting dalam membekali siswa terhadap 'limbo tanpa batas' tersebut.

Pembekalan tersebut tidak mungkin berupa Great Firewall seperti milik RRC, sebab sensor seperti itu pada akhirnya akan bisa diakali juga. Pelonggaran sensor seperti yang dilakukan negara-negara barat juga tidaklah ideal, sebab terkadang perversi seperti Child pornography yang walaupun dilarang, juga dapat terjadi.

Di sini peran orangtua dan guru sangatlah penting untuk mendidik siswa menghadap dunia tanpa batas tersebut. Bagaimana cara mendidik mereka? Salah satu yang penting adalah mendidik anak untuk jujur.

Jika anak sudah didik jujur dari awal, maka mereka akan dapat melaporkan ketidaknyamanan yang mereka alami terhadap orang tua dan guru. Salah satu faktor pendukung disini adalah pendidikan agama dan moral yang baik.

Kemudian yang tak kalah penting, orangtua dan guru harus memberi teladan yang powerful terhadap siswa. Jika orang tua dan guru memang berperilaku baik, jujur, dan terus terang, maka otomatis siswa juga akan menirunya.

Teladan tersebut akan semakin kuat diterima siswa, jika guru juga menguasai medsos dan segala fiturnya.

Diseminasi Informasi Pendidikan via Medsos

Terlepas sisi kompleksitas yang kita sajikan di atas, ternyata medsos juga berguna dalam proses belajar-mengajar itu sendiri. Fitur notes pada Facebook, misalnya, dapat digunakan untuk sharing catatan kuliah.

Sementara itu, kuliah tweet (kultwit) pada Twitter dapat digunakan untuk menjadi pointer terhadap perkuliahan atau pengajaran itu sendiri.

Telah banyak sekali organisasi siswa dan himpunan mahasiswa yang telah memiliki akun Facebook dan Twitter, dan melalui media tersebut, para konstituennya dapat saling berbagai informasi yang terkait akan sekolah atau kuliah mereka.

Seyogyanya, orang tua dan guru mengarahkan siswa atau anak mereka supaya menggunakan medsos ke arah ini. Walau pada akhirnya informasi negatif di medsos dapat saja sampai ke siswa, namun 'pengkondisian operan' yang konsisten terhadap fitur positif medsos akan menyebabkan mereka dapat memfilter informasi apapun secara mandiri.(Penulis: Arli Aditya Parikesit - detikinet)

Foundation Vocational Education and Skills of Vocational High School

we gain knowledge here ..
we get happiness as a teenager school here
we get friends, parents and experience towards maturity was here

With the teacher forces numbered approximately 30 people, with all our heart we learn to be a human being that would be useful for the development of religion, parents, and the state.
many exciting experiences for our students to be here, even with a fairly remote location and mingle with the crowd darti settlements.
we can still do well on the inside and outside of school.
example: we've held a commemoration of Kartini Day by organizing a cooking competition with traditional dress.

in fact we can produce tasty dishes even in our very difficult process because the clothes we wear.
then outside of school if we follow some teen community schools of the district to the province.
the teachers in our school have incredible patience!
they never stopped encouraging us to continue to work and grow the entrepreneurial spirit so that one day we can be independent in the business world.

Come on up! Sports Morning Blind Many Benefits!

Jakarta, Most people are not so crazy about the sport in the early morning, especially on a holiday. Though the sport in the early morning many health benefits you know. Get up, do not be lazy!

Exercise has many benefits, especially when done in the right time, one of them in the early morning. Here are the benefits you can get if diligently exercising in the early morning, as reported by Dailyhealthpost, Saturday (04/13/2013):

1. Better cardiovascular impact

One reason for the run on the treadmill is to improve heart health. Well, in the early morning exercise can actually increase the impact of exercise on the heart.

Why? One of the body's natural way to make you get up is by increasing levels of hormones such as adrenaline, which causes the heart to beat faster. This means you can some additional benefits to cardiovascular when exercising in the morning.

But if you have a heart problem, talk with your doctor about exercise in the morning, because studies have shown that the extra activity of the heart can cause chest pain and heart attacks even in people with underlying issues.

2. Increase brain power

Exercise has been shown to improve mental focus and acuity to 10 full hours post exercise. If you force the sport after work, you can not take advantage of the benefits of having to break the night. Exercise in the early morning meant both brain and body in good shape throughout the day.

3. Better weight loss

If you exercise to lose weight, the morning is the optimal time to exercise it. Exercise in the morning has been shown to suppress the desire to eat less throughout the day. Even exercise in the morning to make the body burn calories faster and more efficiently throughout the day.

4. Produce more energy

Sports releasing compound that makes you feel comfortable and happy, such as endorphins that improve mood and energy levels, the effects of which can last until late afternoon if you are exercising in the early morning. Plus, exercising in the morning can help you sleep better than when exercising at night.

Importantly, teach the children take lunch early

Jakarta (ANTARA News) - Allowing children to bring lunch to school is considered as important for the future health of the younger generation.

According to The Center for Health Promotion Health Ministry confirms Lily Sulistyowati Sriwahyuni​​, the best time to educate bring lunch to school is as early as possible.

"Children grades 1-3 elementary school still listen to the parents, if socialized from an early age, she will have a healthy lifestyle to large," Lily said in Jakarta on Friday.

Although the habit of bringing lunch to school does not continue until the child turns early or upper secondary school, Lily says the child will get used to looking for healthy food when it comes to buying food.

He added, recommended bringing lunch to school does not mean banning kids for snacks outside. Child is okay as long as the snacks that parents can control their children eat healthy food, so Lily.